First he just said her name and kind of laughed in his sleep. First of all you need to have a talk with your hubby about your sex life - not being satisfied once in a while is one thing (I'll admit sometimes I'm like hurry up I want to go to sleep) But for him to keep denying you sexual release is just wrong, wrong, wrong!!! She was already on meds for so many issues though, I wonder if that wasn't as high priority as terrible as it was. No, i used teasing on purpose bc when one party is joking about something the other is very sensitive about, it often feels like teasing. Don't bring it up. In the middle of the night I heard a man yelling HELP in my head. He literally held me and apologized for how much of an asshole his dream self was! I moved to Arkansas about a year and a half ago to live with an ex mother in law from 45 years ago to live with an ex mother in law. My dad passed away a few years ago and a couple months later when I was in the grocery store we shopped at I heard him call me twice. Hes fucking her. Only time will tell I guess. I would ask him about it calmly at another stage and tell him that you genuinely were messing around and if anything you found it funny. If I was accused of having emotional attachments or cheating or whatever because of some nonsense that was uttered when I was dead asleep Id be fucking annoyed and probably give you the same reaction. If shes just a friend, there should be no issue with him setting up a day for you all the hang out together. Suddenly she starts causing drama with me, hes taking her side, they want to hang together on nights/weekends alone, etc. My ears are constantly ringing 24 hours a day, but it was so clear that the ringing subsided. Earlier this week the same thing happened except it was his voice. It could simply be that he's frustrated and needs to relax. Atleast a human should be allowed to have dreams whether it's sexual or not. That shows me shes in a restfull place. You dont know lonely until the one you love is gone. He had no logical reason to act like he did, and so he is the one who has some explaining to do. With that in mind, what do you think is an appropriate course of action? Innocent people dont get defensive like that over a dream. Youre getting cheated on it, Id bet my left hand on it. Originally I would have said he was just having a special dream about her and that was all. As a kid, when my mom remarried, I would sleepwalk upstairs to my parents room, and wake her up, tell her I love her, and then go back to bed, all without ever wakeing up. In Nov. Last year his mom had a massive stroke and past. With your added update, hes definitely cheating. Towards people, or a romantic partner. Just bring it up lightly, such as hey, did you know you were saying s name in your sleep last night?, and make it sound like youre having a laugh about it. I heard, clear as day, a female call my name. According to relationship expert Terri Orbuch, who spoke to Womens Health, dreaming about an ex could mean that youre looking for closure. Wow this describes my ex girlfriend to a T. She would experience dreams in 'real time' all night and was like seeing, touching, tasting, smelling everything around her, like being in combat (she has never served or had any association with the military). I hear my name called. I feel like thats a way more normal reaction than flipping shit. Let it go. Just as you need a mechanic to help repair a faulty car, seeking a relationship professional to help repair a faulty relationship is just as beneficial. But I have very vivid dreams almost every night, one comment or memory will trigger a whole dream for me. This!! OP mentioned he works till 4 and she works afternoons, neighbour lady works till 4 as well. My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now and I like to think we have a strong relationship. If my spouse felt the need to "address" my sleep talking/dreams, I might be a little pissed at the invasion of privacy, too. His reaction is definitely concerning Thats all I gotta say. Better believe it, a typical indication of somebody who's attempting to conceal something is them overemphasizing how it's anything but nothing to joke about. We could be in serious discussion with someone who we will end up being close to in the near future. The fact that he holds spending time with her in such high regard proves that. They may not be physically around but spiritually they are with us. I agree something is up. I took my kids to the keys in Florida just before Covid and it was so much fun. His reaction to her asking about it, isnt. Your dream could also represent the need to reflect on your life. Time for a private eye - find out whats going on. And this is why God is calling your name to remind you of his promise that you will not be alone. She was justified in ASKING which she did, his response however was not justified. You might also see strange things or misinterpret things you can see. They laughed and said it was just a dream bb, then handed me their phone and gave me a hug. Its usually a sign that youre jealous of something your ex has, she says. Good luck. tbf I had wet dreams involving the weirdest persons ever. I heard it twice, not loud or aggressive but calmly. Put your mind at rest and talk to him. Its easier for them to know your schedule, if you have any suspicions, and to get to know more about their new fling. I love him with my whole heart. Best of luck. It was the voice of mother with dementia, and there was a sense of urgency. Sorry sweetie, but Id say hes having or certainly wants something with her :(, Wtf idiots are ITT, you can't control what you dream about ffs. Lol he calls you dramatic while he's in the middle of throwing a tantrum? Time was around 3-4am. I hope there are many more good years ahead of you both. You've said that he previously talked about other things in his sleep and may very well be that he's just reliving the day and doesn't remember his dreams. Im a traditional catholic and we actually belive it is a sin for the man to pleasure himself and not you purposely. Hearing Your Name Called While Sleeping or Falling Asleep. A normal response would have been lol youre fucking with me right? but considering he got angry, thats really suspicious. Collect evidence to support your suspicions. It could be as simple as he's been having unsettling to him dreams with her in them and feels guilty, which isn't really his fault or it could be something more is going on. I must have spent more than an hour trying to figure out what my dream was trying to tell me. I wouldn't care honestly. As if she had awakened me from sleep. Im not afraid just curious to what the spirit is trying to tell me, My grandmother and I talked every morning if not every morning, every other morning and talked a lot when I would get off work. Let things die down a bit and see what you get. Don't be on the attack. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Thats at least as likely as the opposite. All she did was tell him what he said in his sleep, and he responded with that. Its completely out of my control. Youre his wife so you know him. I spoke of it to my girlfriend the next morning. Chances are hell see the funny side but apologise all the same, and theres no need to assume anything unless you have a lot of other concerns. She probably won't even know what to say because she probably won't remember the dream! A cheater-liar is ready for it and has some calm explanation. The dream is a reminder to not forget that God is watching over us and He knows if we have been committing sin. . Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I think once the air is clear, you should propose to have dinner with her and meet this person. Since she left my husband's employment, things have been getting much better. Husband Says I Sleep Talk Another Man's Name : (. Thats my instinctual reaction reading this, especially considering his overly aggressive and defensive reaction. Our lack of rest may be causing us to hear sounds. This is how I found out the details of my husband cheating. A few weeks ago my wife of 14 years said I called for a Maureen a few times. Then responded that his wife must be crazy if she thinks hes going to stop talking to her. We grew up together and were just very close and kept a relationship. More people talk in their sleep than you may think. The first time I heard her voice call my name was in December 2021. and our Shows a guilty conscience and probable cheating. His reaction is very telling. He continued to call me ridiculous, dramatic, etc, and if he expected me to stop hanging out with her because of this I was out of my god damn mind, then he left. Its my first time in a day i heard familiar voice had call my name but theres no one it happend 2x,,.. then second day i was asleep at noon its very clear in my ears and suddenly i woke upwhats that mean.. Never said that, but its real sketchy how he acted. After that updatefucking yikes friend. God knows that you have gone cold on your faith, and the dream is His way of nudging you to come back to him and trust Him again. PS: I don't think you should stop self pleasuring either, that won't solve the problem. "M liked this TV show." Brains are weird. I just have a really dark imagination. So, to start. Did you know they were hanging out before? I have had plenty of dreams not involving my partner. Now I wish she knew there were meds she could have tried for it. Sniff your partners private? But my daughter was with headphones listening to her shows on YouTube. Being confronted with stuff you have zero control over isn't great. You are on your right to ask him, but don't worry much, dreams are crazy fr. His reaction is far more concerning than the initial issue of him saying her name in his sleep. It's like, I can't control what a figment of YOUR imagination does Oh no no no no. I was awaken this morning by someone calling my name and it was so real, but I did not recognize the voice. This is not an appropriate way to respond to conflicts. Just sayingIve been told that I talked in my sleep and when my EVIL ex wife told me what I said, I immediately remembered the dream I had. His reaction is certainly more stressed than the fundamental issue of him saying her name in his rest. Well, if you weren't suspicious before, that reaction is certain to garner suspicion. How the coil springs look like as you move it back and forth.? Please go see a divorce lawyer. Like he knew I'd look and it's scrubbed clean. I don't think she ever got me to divulge any information as I'm sure she would have woken me up and freaked out on me, I'm sure. There are some people who would take this as prodding with the intent to accuse regardless. Thanks , Wow I have the exact same dreams! Hell probably say huh, thats weird! Maybe just keep an eye out for how they interact in real life. I know he tends to dream about work in general (stress) and his reaction made me feel like it was genuinely just a weird subconscious thing and reassured me. His reaction is so over the top and ridiculous. The voice might call your name or say something brief. It woke me up. Read about the biblical meaning of waking up at 3am. Before this. Tell him that you must have been dreaming about someone random and reassure him that not only are you not cheating on him, but you would never ever think about it. My ex became very suspicious after that (rightfully so) and it wasnt long until he found out the extent of my infidelity. Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. He's back in the office now too, so I'm sure sees M daily, and eats lunch with her in the cafeteria. Her husbands reaction is what someone does when they got caught with their hand in the cookie jar. Get proof and leave him. It's a natural thing to do. Not normal for him to get this defensive. Funny how thats where your mind went. So might be a good idea to sit down without a journal, give yourself and that feeling some space and some time in your day. He immediately got defensive, and began saying he couldnt fucking believe I was making an issue out of this. It could also be that he isnt cheating but he fantasizes about it which is, in my opinion, equally as bad considering its someone you both know and live considerably close to. Period. Youre being dramatic? Call his bs of deflecting people say things like youre being dramatic. Or relax points the finger about you making an issue. Only once in a while I will hear my name being called . Many of us are just so engrossed in our daily lives and events that we forget to listen to what the world around us has to say. Your spouses response to me is a huge red flag. He may be the type to react with anger when hes nervous. That outrageous preventiveness and evasion would persuade me to think he's most certainly concealing something. To hear your name being called in your dream indicates that you are in touch and in tune with your spirituality. Why have I never thought to hand over an unlocked phone with a hug when an SO is feeling insecure? A dead relative visiting us isnt necessarily a bad or scary thing. I once was accused of having a sex dream by an ex (I was actually dreaming about the X-Men, in a very non-sexy way) and it became a whole ridiculous thing, ending up with us both angry: she was angry because she didn't believe me and I was angry because she didn't believe me. Going on the defensive would imply to me there's more to it than just dreams. It'll drive you crazy so just tell him what you told us. What experience do you need to become a teacher? It sounds like shes had a rough go of it though, I hope shes doing better these days. His defensive reaction is normal because you got upset about something he cant control. I was shocked at first but I was surprisingly calm. he could pissed you would think he's cheating when he's not. Does anyone out there know a little bit about dreams and how to interpret what happened? thank you! The 1st time I jumped up and my heart was beating so fast, second time I jumped up and laid back down, looked around/tossed and turned but eventually I fell back asleep. I sing Robbie Williams Candy in my sleep and cant explain that! You'll have to decide if going full nuclear is something that will be needed in order for him to be honest with you (demand polygraph test, separation from her, etc). Really only the dreamer knows what the message is coming through from the subconscious mind. Hoping you have support. My now ex wife would talk back to me while I was sleeping, asking me questions. Best of luck. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. When I talk to my therapist he always tells me if they get super defensive and aggressive then its usually a problem. Holy shit then yes!!! But we can control what we do about them. I had a similar thing happen to me and I took a break from Reddit and instagram and it helped change my dreams. Initially, I was very scared, searched my home, and tried calling my dad in the hospital. We got into an accident, and the white msn driving lost his shit, becoming incredibly aggressive in his racism towards Muslim people. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Yeah, I can tell you from experience that he's cheating. Like I feel so guilty just for having these dreams.theyre just dreams. "self pleasured" myself in my sleep and B.moaned Justin's name while doing so! But if they only see each other in relation to your kids I wouldn't jump to conclusions. If that isn't a guilty conscious reaction, I don't know what is. I still have the same opinion that dreams really aren't something we can control, but OP's husband is not handling this like an innocent man. No we are just friends. I looked at my phone and it was exactly 6 oclock. It's totally valid. 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